Make yourself Likable

To make your life joyous and harmonious, make efforts to be likable. You might have observed that while people spontaneously like someone and try to be with him, avoid another. This is because, some personalities are born with a likable nature but all are not. While one cannot change one’s inborn qualities, one can study and analyse himself and the likable persons as to why one is likable and the other is not and try to improve oneself. The likable person is liked not solely because of his physical appearances or his dressing habits but for the way he conducts himself. While one should not be careless about dress code, one should give more attention to others. Whenever you are alone, it does not matter because who can afford to be absentminded or behave as you like. But whenever you are with others, you should learn to pay attention to others, take sincere interest and listen to what others say and be understanding and considerate. If you are in a gathering, and the other person wants to have your seat, give it. It is more joyful to live for others if it does not cost you dearly. Unselfish action and behaviour will make you more likable and attract true friends who may make your life more joyful.