Tuesday, November 6, 2007

How to deal with difficult neighbours

Whether you are living in the remotest country side or in the most advanced cosmopolitan city, you will find a neighbour who is difficult to manage. You cannot simply run away from him. Whenever you go, you may find one. You have to stay with one. Then how do you manage him and the confrontations, the headaches he gives you. You might try to sort out the problems through personal efforts, through the other neighbours, the authorities and the like. But if there is no result and he continues to be malignant, you have to learn to live with him. Try to understand him, see things from his point of view and if, a solution can be found in his line of thinking without much loss or damage to you, consider going by it. Accept him as a incurable disease and live with him. Also ignore him and evade him to the extent possible.

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